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Dyslexia and Self-Esteem: Empowering Children with Learning Differences


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Growing up with dyslexia can be an exceptionally challenging journey for our children. The learning difficulties associated with dyslexia can often lead to low self-esteem and feelings of inadequacy. However, it is important to understand that dyslexia is not a measure of intelligence. Many individuals with dyslexia possess unique strengths and talents that should be celebrated. By nurturing a positive mindset and providing appropriate support, we can empower our children to build their self-esteem and thrive. In this article, I want to explore practical strategies and techniques to help raise a child with dyslexia, fostering a growth mindset and confidence.

Fortunately, this post discusses many simple and practical methods you can use to aid your child in building self-esteem, including:


  • Focusing on your child's strengths

  • Recognising and praising efforts, progress, and perseverance

  • Allowing children to take on age-appropriate responsibilities

  • Collaborating with educators and utilising assistive technologies

  • Emphasising effort and growth

  • Encouraging positive inner dialogue

  • Raising your child with patience and understanding

  • Dedicating yourself to fostering their self-esteem

  • Embracing their strengths and providing appropriate support


Understanding Dyslexia

Dyslexia is a difference in how a child's brain processes language, particularly in reading, writing, and spelling. It is essential to recognize that dyslexia is not a reflection of a child's intelligence but rather a specific learning difference. By reframing our understanding of dyslexia, we can create an environment that promotes self-acceptance and resilience.


The Impact of Dyslexia on Self-Esteem

Children with dyslexia often face unique challenges in school and social settings. Their difficulties can lead to frustration, isolation, and a negative self-image. It is crucial for parents and educators to be aware of the potential impact on a child's self-esteem and take proactive steps to address these issues.

Early Diagnosis and Intervention

Early identification of dyslexia is key to providing appropriate support and intervention. By seeking a professional assessment and diagnosis, parents can better understand their child's needs and access the necessary resources. Early intervention programs like therapy and tutoring can help children develop essential skills and strategies to navigate their learning differences effectively.

Building on Strengths

Focusing on a child's strengths is essential to boosting their self-esteem. While it is important to address areas of difficulty, nurturing and celebrating a child's unique talents and abilities can provide a sense of accomplishment and pride. Encourage your child to explore their interests and hobbies, allowing them to excel in areas where they feel confident and competent.

Positive Reinforcement

Positive reinforcement plays a crucial role in building a child's self-esteem. Instead of solely focusing on the result, praise their efforts, progress, and perseverance. Celebrate small victories and milestones, highlighting their hard work and determination. By recognizing and affirming their achievements, you can instil pride and self-worth.

Encouraging Independence and Responsibility

Allowing children to take on age-appropriate responsibilities can boost their self-esteem and competence. Involve your child in decision-making processes, such as planning activities or setting goals. Giving them opportunities to contribute and succeed will help them develop a belief in their abilities and become more self-assured.

Creating a Supportive Environment

A supportive environment is crucial for fostering positive self-esteem in children with dyslexia. The following are some strategies to create an empowering atmosphere at home:

Open Communication

Encourage open and honest communication with your child. Create a safe space where they feel comfortable expressing their thoughts, concerns, and frustrations. Listen actively and validate their experiences, showing empathy and understanding.

Collaboration with Educators

Establish a collaborative relationship with your child's teachers and school. Advocate for your child's needs, ensuring they receive appropriate accommodations and support. Regular communication with educators will help you stay informed about your child's progress and address any challenges they may face.

Multi-Sensory Learning

Dyslexic children benefit from multi-sensory learning approaches. Incorporate hands-on activities, visual aids, and auditory resources to engage different senses and enhance learning. This approach can help children with dyslexia better grasp and retain information, improving their confidence and academic performance.

Assistive Technologies

Explore the use of assistive technologies designed specifically for children with dyslexia. These tools can support reading, writing, and organization, allowing children to work more independently and effectively. Assistive technologies can empower children with dyslexia, giving them the tools they need to succeed.

Promoting a Growth Mindset

Cultivating a growth mindset is essential for children with dyslexia. A growth mindset emphasizes that their abilities and intelligence can be developed through effort, practice, and perseverance. You can promote a growth mindset by:

Emphasize Effort and Growth

Encourage your child to view challenges as opportunities for growth. Teach them that mistakes are essential to the learning process and should not be feared. Emphasize the importance of effort, resilience, and perseverance in achieving success.

Set Realistic Goals

Help your child set realistic and achievable goals. Break down larger tasks into smaller, manageable steps, allowing them to experience success along the way. Celebrate their progress and use setbacks as learning opportunities to reinforce the growth mindset.

Encourage a Positive Inner Dialogue

Help your child develop a positive inner dialogue by challenging negative self-talk. Teach them to reframe negative thoughts and focus on their strengths and accomplishments. By cultivating a positive self-image, they will develop resilience and confidence in the face of challenges.


Raising a child with dyslexia requires patience, understanding, and a commitment to fostering their self-esteem. By embracing their unique strengths, providing appropriate support, and promoting a growth mindset, we can empower our children with dyslexia to navigate their learning differences with confidence and resilience. Remember, dyslexia is not a limitation but a difference that also offers opportunities for growth and success. Let's create an inclusive and supportive environment where every child can thrive, regardless of their learning differences.


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Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and should not substitute professional advice. Please consult a qualified specialist for personalized guidance and support.



Written by Bernadette Haigh
Bernadette Haigh is the Founder of Daring Dyslexic and host of the Doing Dyslexia Differently Podcast. She is on a mission to redefine what it means to grow up with dyslexia. Bernadette offers a fresh and unique perspective by focusing on mindset, confidence, and self-esteem – areas she knows all too well impact a person's potential long after conquering their academic challenges. You can find Bernadette on Instagram, LinkedIn, Youtube and her podcast on Spotify, and other great players.

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